Tuesday, April 8, 2014

20 Years Ago Today




Today marks twenty years since Kurt Cobain was found dead in his home. Expecting the media to revive the topic for the anniversary the Seattle Police Department reviewed the Cobain case. Which immediately led some to believe the case was being re-opened. SPD however denied the claims. They did however release previously unreleased photographs. The SPD now faces a lawsuit from a conspiracist.

"The impromptu release of the photos last week by Seattle Police Department has drawn a lawsuit from Richard Lee, a self-described investigative journalist best known for making groundless assertions that Cobain was murdered. Lee -- a 50-year-old Seattle man who has run for mayor several times and who hosted the public access show "Kurt Cobain Was Murdered" -- is repressing himself in the suit."-Seattle Pi

Rather than try to earn money from a closed case or expose photographs of Cobain's heroin kit, which were included in the newly released photographs, I'd like to remember and commemorate the musician by remembering his his advocacy of LGBT people and women's rights.

In a 1992 interview with the Advocate when asked if he ever thought he was gay. Cobain said,

"Yeah, absolutely. See, I've always wanted male friends that I could be real intimate with and talk about important things with and be as affectionate with that person as I would be with a girl. Throughout my life, I've always been really close with girls and made friends with girls and. And I've always been a really sickly, feminine person anyhow, so I thought I was gay for a while because I didn't find any of the girls in my high school attractive at all. They had really awful haircuts and fucked-up attitudes. So I thought I would try to be gay for a while, but I'm just more sexually attracted to women. But I'm really glad that I found a few gay friends, because it totally saved me from becoming a monk or something." 

In this clip from the film About A Son Kurt goes into detail about his friendship with a gay friend in high school.




PBS did an animation for an interview Cobain had done in 1993 with Jon Savage

At 1:43 Kurt mentions his inability to make male friends leading to him having many female friends and understanding sexism better. As well as his acknowledgement of the prevalence of sexism in music specially hard-rock.

At 2:50 he explains how people thought he was gay as a teenager and his problems with his homophobic mother.




Cobain would go as far as interrupting songs half-way through to stop a male audience member who was touching a female audience member. Calling out, "Copping a feel eh buddy?" while the other members of Nirvana joined in.




PS.

If you're feeling good about third wave feminism and 90's punk rock and have a Netflix account try checking out the documentary The Punk Singer about artist Kathleen Hanna.




She performed with a band called Bikini Kill and lead the Riot Grrl movement. I can explain it or you can enjoy the trailer.










Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Women Can't Do Everything A Man Can Do


The greatest myth that has grown out of the patriarchal umbrella humanity lives under is the idea that women just simply can not do the same things as men.
From opening jars to parallel parking to "reasoning" women just can't seem to get a grip or so we're told.

The internet being the wonderful place it is allows people to voice their opinions to the world. Unluckily for for those who say sexist, racist and just generally dumb statements it also captures those beautiful moments for ever.

Taylor here reminds us men just can't handle seeing women die in the battle field






"Let's not forget the slogan is 'I will not leave a man behind! Not I will not leave a man, woman, military partner or whatever, BEHIND!"-The military, probably.

This tumblr user
http://womenshouldntdothat.tumblr.com/
created a whole blog just to capture the ridiculousness that spurts out of men's and sometimes women's mouths when it comes to defining what women can and shouldn't do.



Makes you wonder why they call him "Zero"

A personal favorite of mine. Jason "I can cuss but you should be a lady"

Remember he's not sexist or anything he just doesn't let women make their own decisions. He also doesn't know "your" from "you're."